Harper opens with her graduation from her emergency medicine residency at Mercy Hospital in the South Bronx. Her mother was her only guest. Harper’s husband, Dan, did not attend, a visible sign that her marriage to Dan had ended. She writes, “It wasn’t at all how I had pictured graduation from my emergency medicine residency at Mercy Hospital […] but it certainly was a blistering end” (21). In the months leading up to the end of her residency, Harper and Dan planned to move to Philadelphia, where Dan’s parents lived. However, as the time to move approached, Dan shocked Harper when he told her that he would not be moving with her. He justified this decision by saying that he could not live in the shadow of her professional success. Two days later, Harper filed for divorce. She writes, “I wasn’t angry the marriage was over. I wasn’t bitter. I knew that we had run our course” (27). As her marriage ended, she reflected on why she was so hurt by the divorce and concluded that the wounds from her past were the actual source of her grief.

After briefly summarizing her academic trajectory, which notably included Harvard (where she met Dan), Harper details her

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